"The First Deacon"
by The Rev. Deacon Dr. Bette Kauffman
4 February 2024, Christ Episcopal Church, St.
Joseph, LA
Year B, Epiphany 5 Isaiah
40:21-31, 1 Corinthians 9:16-23, Mark 1:29-39
Today’s Gospel lesson is
the story of Jesus healing Peter’s mother-in-law. This story lays out a pattern
for us, actually a couple of patterns that are well worthy of our reflection as
we head toward Lent.
The first pattern is set
by Peter’s mother-in-law. She was, no doubt, in charge of the household. That’s
the way it was. The senior woman—the matriarch—was in charge of the household.
She is sick when Jesus
arrives. I like to think she was sick from doing “grandma daycare”! I do
grandma daycare and love to do it, but occasionally I come down with some kid
disease the grandbabies caught in regular daycare.
In any case, although she
is sick, Jesus is welcomed in. He learns of her illness and immediately goes to
her bedside.
Now I must pause to
explain a couple of things because so much in our reading of Holy Scripture is
lost in translation. Our reading says Jesus “lifted her up.” The Greek used
here is the same exact word as is used for Jesus’ resurrection.
So what we have here is a
mini Easter, a foreshadowing of the Easter story. She is not dead, but in a
sense, Jesus resurrects her. And what does she do? Immediately she begins to
serve.
Again, our lesson says
she begins to “wait on them,” and the Greek word used for that is diaconia.
And diaconia means “service among others.” It is also the source of the
word “deacon,” and deacons are the icons and leaders of servant ministry in the
church. So Peter’s mother-in-law is, in that sense, the church’s first deacon.
But remember what Jesus
said about himself. For the son of man came not to be served but to serve (Mark 10:45). We are all called to serve, from
Jesus on down. We are all called to announce the Gospel by our actions in
service to others.
Peter’s mother-in-law’s home becomes a house
church, a home base, a gathering place for those who need forgiveness, healing.
Our translation of this story says “the whole city was gathered around the
door.” Older translations say "the whole world was pressing up against the
door."
It’s important to note
that Peter’s mother-in-law’s home, powered by the Love of God in Jesus, is a
new kind of gathering place, one outside of the mainstream of religious
institutions. And outside of the mainstream of religious instiutions is where
Jesus did most of his work. Yes, he preached in the synagogues. But the places
place of healing, administering justice, and helping all who come looking for
him mostly happened in this new type of gathering place, outside of the
mainstream.
So that’s the first
pattern: Peter’s mother-in-law receives the Love of God in Jesus into her
home/life, she is raised up from her place of weakness by the Love, and the
Love shines through her and her home as she ministers to others. To this day,
her home in the middle east is a revered site of healing and pilgrimage.
In what ways does your
own life become a conduit for God’s Love? In what ways has your home become a
base for comings and goings in Love?
The second pattern in
this story is set by Jesus himself. He serves; he heals the multitudes pressing
at the door. The story say he began healing at sundown; it was probably the
Sabbath. And from sundown until who knows what wee hour of the night, he healed
the multitude at the door. He must have gone to bed exhausted.
Nevertheless, he gets up
early, the story says, emphasizing that it was still very very dark. He
gets up and goes to a deserted place to pray.
Which of us has ever done
that? Or would do it? I might indeed wake up early when the house is quiet and
everyone else asleep. But if I think of praying, I am most likely to convince
myself that I’ll just lay here in bed and pray, right?! And I’ll be back asleep
again in minutes.
We’ll get up early to go
hunting. Or to catch an early flight. But to get dressed to go out in search of
silence and solitude? Not likely.
But Jesus must refresh
his relationship with Divine Love through prayer in silence and solitude.
He must go back to the source of all Love.
Thomas Merton was a monk
and poet who lived alone in a cabin in the woods that he called “the
hermitage.” He so craved solitude that he got special permission to live by
himself in this cabin, rather than in the monastery proper, where he went for
meals and communal worship services.
Here’s Merton’s
description of what I think Jesus is up to in this story: Let me seek, then, the
gift of silence … and solitude, where everything I touch is turned into prayer:
where the sky is my prayer, the birds are my prayer, the wind in the trees is
my prayer, for God is all in all.
Wherever you go—outdoors,
a space in your home, an empty church (Christ Church
is never locked. St. Thomas’ in Monroe doesn’t even have a lock on the front
doors.)—the more silence and solitude the better. Go, listen, which is a form
of prayer, breathe—breathe in God’s love, wisdom, peace…
And what does Jesus do
next? Restored, he plunges back into the waiting world. He answers his call, he
expands his ministry. He takes his disciples to spread the good news of God’s
love to the neighboring villages.
Seeking, loving and
serving human beings is as much an absolute as seeking, loving and serving God.
One movement is vertical, the other horizontal; both are essential.
Jesus left us in no doubt
about the necessity of this simultaneous movement in two planes: toward God and
toward each other.
Here’s how author Carlo
Caretto puts it: The closer you come to God …, the greater … your craving to love human
beings on the level of action. The perfection of men and women on earth
consists in the integration … of our love for God and our love for human
beings.
Notice now, these two
patterns:
Peter’s mother-in-law
receives the Love of God in the person of Jesus into her home and life, he
reaches out to her in her weakness and raises her up, and she responds with diaconia,
loving service to humankind that extends far beyond her immediate household.
Jesus, full of God’s
Love, heals and serves and ministers to the world pressing at the door, goes
out into silence and solitude—that is, prayer—to be refreshed by the very
source of Divine Love, then returns to the world to expand his own ministry in
love to the world.
These are really two
versions of one pattern—the very same pattern we will shortly enact. We serve.
We get spent and exhausted and cranky and sick and tired of it all. We come to
the Holy Table to be refreshed, to be renewed in body, mind and spirit. And we
go back out to serve some more.
That is our theology of
Holy Communion. That is what we who are dwelling places of the Holy Spirit do.
In the name of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, AMEN.